Love shouldn’t hurt
As I reflect on my current relationship and the incredible difference it is from the many years I spent with the narcissist, I wonder how…
Do you really know your partner? Are they a covert narcissist?
Less obvious signs that he/she is a narcissist Hero complex and playing the victim. While not as common, some narcissists have a hero complex, while…
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Stuck with the narcissist
The trauma bond is the ultimate weapon that the narcissist holds to win the battle and making sure that you don’t leave. He has manipulated…
Emotional Abuse IS abuse…
I recently watched Maid (After fleeing an abusive relationship, a young mother finds a job cleaning houses as she fights to provide for her child…
I remember… but it’s getting easier to forget
I remember begging for the bare minimum. I remember praying for honesty and respect. I remember crying myself to sleep because I wasn’t good enough.…
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You deserve better
I haven’t published anything in three months. I have been reflecting and trying to not offend all these fuckers who decided to find and stalk…
Reactive Abuse- even good people have their limits
Reactive abuse is what happens when you lash out towards your abuser. Generally, this doesn’t happen right away, but rather after you have been accepting…
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If narcissts came with a warning label…
I will sweep you off your feet and make you think that I’m everything you have ever wanted. You’ll ask me how I’m still single…
Hindsight is 20/20
I was sitting at my desk last Wednesday evening, working late, when an alert popped up on my phone that someone was at my commercial…
Triangulation
I wrote the content below in January 2014. A year and a half into our relationship, when things first started to go to shit because…
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