Accommodating or desperate?

If there is one thing that I have learned from past relationships and from reading about douche bags on Idatedthatdouche.com is that it’s important to not be too accommodating in a relationship. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t be thoughtful or compromise but there is a difference between compromise and doing everything to please the man you’re with. If you find yourself always going to him, doing what he wants to do, waiting around for him to make plans with you while turning down plans with your friends or always reaching out to him, you are wasting your time.

If a guy is really interested in you he will come to you, plan ahead to see you and want to do things that you enjoy. When you are too accommodating you appear desperate and an easy target to get douched. Trust me on this one ladies, take a step back and think before you go out of your way for someone who may not do the same for you.